Is Your Spouse Lying to you?

Why do people lie? Do you suspect your spouse may be lying to you and if so, how would you know? Below are some reasons why people may speak an untruth;

• To avoid conflict.
  To supposedly protect someone's feelings.
  To avoid the consequences of their behavior.
  To postpone having to make changes in lifestyle.
  To hide something they did or did not do.
  Because they are afraid of rejection or losing their spouse.
  To be in control of a situation.
  To avoid being embarrassed.
  To make themselves appear more successful, good, or talented than they really are

The bottom line: If you think your spouse is lying, ask questions and ask for clarification if necessary. Trust your own intuition or that funny feeling you may feel inside.

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Possible Signs of Lying:

• Touching chin, or rubbing their brows.
  Crossed arms or legs.
  Playing with hair.
  A line of perspiration on the brow if it isn't a warm day.
  Saying "no" several times.
  Continual denying of accusations.
  Being extremely defensive.
  Providing more information and specifics than is necessary or was asked for. Smugness.
  May place a barrier such as a desk or chair in front of self.
  Uncommon calmness.
  Unwillingness to touch spouse during conversation.
  Being hesitant.
  Slouching posture.
  Rigidity or fidgeting.

Of course, some of these gestures may be nervousness or habit- use your gut instinct (it's usually right). So what can you do if your spouse is lying? Some experts teach that when you believe you are being lied to, you shouldn't confront your spouse with your suspicions right away. They recommend waiting until you have discovered more information and facts. Other experts believe that the sooner the cards are all out on the table, and the sooner honesty is lived out once again in a marriage, the better. Only you know what is best for your marriage relationship. Need more advice? Please click for more information!