We're human, we're emotional and we're in a relationship- of course challenges will arise. That being said, why do some marriages seem to thrive and others dive? There is a pattern to Martial problems and issues that people share. Below are the top ten things you need to try and avoid in your own relationship.
- Lack of Respect- never badmouth your spouse to family, friends or co-workers. Spouses need to be thanked and appreciated.
- Not Listening- pay attention to your spouse when they are talking
- Lack of Sexual Intimacy- this is a death knell for a marriage. Seek counseling and medical help if necessary.
- Always Having to Be Right- very few people can love a 'know-it-all'. Admit when you've made a mistake or that you don't have all the answers.
- Not Walking the Talk- Actions speak louder than words, follow-thru and do something when you say you will.
- Hurtful Teasing- don't tease your spouse unkindly or use 'put-down' words.
- Dishonesty- Keeping lies and secrets in your relationship creates distance and lack of trust.
- Being Annoying- Things like gross personal hygiene habits, always being late, nitpicking, ect.
- Being Selfish or Greedy- It's not all about you. Open your home to family & friends, don't hog the remote, watch movies your spouse wants to see.
- Having Temper Tantrums- You are no longer a child. Every couple needs to be able to handle conflict in a constructive way. Anger outbursts will make you the loser in the end.
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